Let’s face it, leaving aside drunken fumbles at the staff party, men (and women) having affairs do so because there is something seriously wrong in their marriage.
Very often, this is a sexual mismatch, but sometimes it’s just the old “doesn’t understand me” routine – and being a normal excuse doesn’t mean its untrue. If 95% of a married relationship is working well, all that’s needed is a way to fiil that missing 5%.
A “traditional” affair involves enormous amounts of deception, pressure and time management, and if it continues can become a commitment that leads to pressure to break the marriage up.
By contrast, a Sugar Daddy type arrangement can have all the thrills and benefits of an affair, but because it is a more commercial arrangement, firstly removes the commitment issue, and secondly is, almost by definition, time limited, as most Sugar Babies are waiting for their careers to progress, and are bridging their finances in between times.
Some Suga Daddy sites got an(in my view) undeserved bad reputation because of the number of college kids using them to stay afloat financially
Given the alternative is the ever growing number of porn star students, it’s difficut to see how a discreet arrangement with one guy is so bad compared to a the baggage a lifetime of online porn videos could create.
Any views or experience to contribute??